It didn't occur to me
That you would have had a name
Not until she came in,
Yellow folder in hand,
Offering support
I don't remember her name,
That social worker
Or the name of the doctor
Or of the nurse
(Daphne, Daria, Delora?)
I was tired, drained
Disappointed, frustrated,
Angry, ashamed,
And sad
So desperately sad
Did I let you down?
Yes
Maybe my diet should've been better
More exercise?
Did I heft your sister around too much?
Did I let you down?
No
Nothing could be done
Sometimes these things just happen
Maybe you just weren't strong enough
And now I'm thinking about the what would have beens
Your name, your smile
Boy or girl
Would your sister be happy, jealous
Both?
Do I name you now?
They say it helps you cope.
I feel guilty because I don't want to waste a name
Is it a waste?
I'm awful.
Terrible.
What kind of a mom doesn't name her child?
Thinks it's a waste?
I'm still coping
Figuring it out
I thought I was good
But then thinking of your name,
Now I'm not.
I can't name you.
Not today.
Maybe not ever.
Because I was supposed to have time
Time to get to know you
Time to think
To find the perfect fit
But we didn't get the time
A few short weeks together
Now it's just me
I felt you leave
And that feeling will stick in my head forever
I'll deal.
I'll cope.
I'll try to soldier on.
And maybe one day, we'll meet again
And you'll tell me your name
And it will be better than any I could give
Until then, I'll miss you
I can't name you
But still
You were my baby
Wanted, loved
And I hope you'll forgive my failings
And still call me mom.
About the Creator
Mama Keebean
I'm a stay at home mom with a love for food, movies, quilts, and, of course, my family.
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