Reflections on a Life Nearing Its End
Looking Back
Reflections on a life nearing its end — or a warning to the young
I have lived a life of many parts
some happy and some sadness filled.
My age now rises high as the larks
but without sweet song being trilled.
I seem to have been swept many ways
by winds of others urgent needs
my youth, oh how I wish I could have stayed
before responsibilities grew like weeds
thinking of the world at large,
will all things even out?
as smooth as a creeping barge?
or will savagery tear us all about ?
I have believed in many things,
some worthy of my thoughts
and some hollow empty rings.
some just others convictions being taught.
Birth and death begin with pain,
why is the world being driven?
surely the life between must gain?
not everything should be so riven.
I have read so many words, experienced so much
yet I still feel I know so little.
I ask myself, have I really even learnt to touch?
is all of life just tattle tittle.
My parents, so good and kind,
grew in a world split by wars
yet they never showed pained mind,
even when joints pained by sores.
life was simple, followed rules
no one sold them joy tomorrow
so life went at pace of mules.
now we all rush so hard to sorrow
happiness is just a moment
fleeting as lightening flash
so few even seek atonement
simple things have lost to trash.
if not bought and new,
we are told it's all bad.
this brings rewards to so few
and leaves millions oh so sad.
I have known failure to give orgasmic delight
yet shared other times of passion
been wrong when convinced of right
but never succumbed to tricks of fashion
I have been rich and also poor
I have been fit and strong
but also weak and oh so sore
I have never carried a song
I have written books that sold
then been dashed by publishers trims
if only they had been bold
my treasure could support my whims
I have been both cause and victim
quilt and sufferance in similar measure
so often my ego has just limped in
with only hope left to treasure
My mother was born in a time zone
when horse ruled and cars were rare
She lived to see mobile phone
and people flying in the air
from a time when illness killed so many
to a time when neglect is costed in pence
and yet nothing can be bought for a penny
and politicians all sit on the same fence
I grew in a time of war
yet childhood safe from reality
all around was bloodshed and gore
yet children shielded from insanity.
The pace of change increasingly fast
that which was allowed to grow
no one now spends time before the mast
is harvested almost before we sow
We marvel at things were sold
wanting not needing is now the rule
never allowed to be bold
yet some survive on only gruel
In a world so rich and varied hue
money and wealth makes lords on men
not many; only a few
while better and more worthy live in a pen
nobility and valiant strife
disregarded, for lies and spin
ability to falsify runs rife
pushing all that’s good in the bin
What hope lies for children to come
if deceit and fakery bring fame
will a new dawn restore some
pride to humanity and these evils tame?
There are so many good and bright
yet we bury these under morons needs
rise up do not give up the fight
it only takes scattering of seeds
fine values and creative skills
to rule the lives of men
women guide spirits to real thrills
honour and virtue rise from muddy fen
The world is not yet lost
we can go forward to better time
say no to marketing dread dross
and even I may find a rhyme
Money and fear go hand in hand.
With it, they fear its loss.
Without it, fear the strong armed band
legal fees raise the cost
for those who have nothing left
from these the banks steal ever more
care not for lives bereft
truth and honour, replaced by a rotten core.
In my life I have had pain
but also sweet children to love and cherish
bringing so much joyful gain
If their happiness is certain, my life can perish
I have gazed upon painted Guernica
marvelled at Pablo's skill
painting pain and humanity's murder
great art worked at hard to thrill
I seen and heard such wondrous music
Mahler in orchestral pomp
Sir Rattle leading such a physic
heart lifting joy and emotions romp
I have seen Nureyev such a dance
leaping with grace that defy mere words
such faultless leaps are not chance
such long and hard work to fly like birds
I have seen races finest
Jim Clark, Duke, and Surtees too
Graham Hill and Mike H at their best
my lesser skills I do rue.
I have ridden far and wide
free and wild as the wind
no helmet my hair to hide
now all this called sinned
at a rushing speed
only skill and nerve
save breaking like a reed
adrenaline rush to serve
I have lived in freedoms bosom
yet know the price this love can bring
death and pain will come to some
and age does slow most everything.
Love and pain seem so common
why they twine each to other
laughter laced with the solemn
let love and laughter be as brother
why do we always spoil the time
I have caused weeping and shed my tears
wishing for others share sunshine
as always mostly due to fears
now old ages has become my station
The younger me never thought
to live beyond the next location
now freedom curbed as failing body so fraught
no wealth to comfort me
all taken by failure to play banking game
without them I would still be free
but so many good are the same.
Lacking wealth and so a choice
causes friction and frustration
in old age I have lost my voice
just one in aging nation
failure in so many ways
so much belief has been shed
hope eternal still it stays
fading memories darken my bed
I lost a son to illness vile
worked so hard I missed children’s growth
a family when divorce was style
desperation to bring home a fat loaf.
Failure to preserve a life so rich and deserving
church teaching not help a jot
heaven seems for only priests reserving
working hard not achieve a lot
trying to help yet have a life
shared hopes and aims
all ended in strife
now just balance loss and gains
I have crossed from Aachen to Lille
one night of blinding snow
never another light in sight
flat out from boarder till France in sight
I have driven Innsbruck to French Calais
in ten hours plus ten minutes
it was a fine dry day
driving close to cars limits
but now age dims the mind
that which would still be fun
such fast reactions now hard to find
not even fit to run
I can still do my yoga neat
press ups by the score
but now need to rest my feet
and have become a bore.
In my early manhood
lived or died by quick reactions
what I would do then I could
now age slows by fractions
now treated as if in childhood
by one who claims to love me
whose pain is real if object I should
such tears and great upset till tea
I have know both the great imposters
success and dark failure
one does ego greatly foster
while other is despondence allure
I have know sweet passions fill
many hours and kind embrace
and also failed to thrill
last to finish loves great chase
Now I need my time to ponder
while others feel the need to govern
my every moment just to wander
over trivial gossip on a sloven
so few do focus hard
where we gave concentration
now they have TV by the yard
effort swapped for sensation.
Sadness fills some hours
my failure to my daughters
with lives no beds of flowers
I feel not done as I aught a
their lives not easy as I would wish
Princesses both with great kids
and I can not afford a fish
to feed them full to their lids
I fell so much that they do so well
despite their dad not providing
if others were my life to tell
may be a different bell to ring
who knows as truth is what each new mind
makes of what each eye does see
and interpretation is not always kind
especially if you can not pay the fee.
To bolster others esteem so low
I accept blame where differences lay
others have their own seeds to sow
and I accept the need that I must pay
for times when my self I put first
praised for powers I thought dead
gloried in another’s thirst
causing others to live in dread
I think of what might have been
was I too proud or deceived
did hope obscure what I should have seen
when things I did were well received
yet yielded me and mine
nothing that could bolster pride
not a single dime.
did big business take me for a ride?
yet I still have that need,
to write words of my own,
even if I feed others greed,
may be from seeds other sown.
Banks will lend and lend,
until you have the greatest need.
Then they collectors send
intent of taking all your feed
what logic drives this action
to give when have and take from nothing
no wonder anarchies reaction
leaving good men in wasteland roughing
Yet bankers given big rise
while working men beg for crusts
sharp practice wins the prise
while the law all grievance shuts
Justice and law are now so very far apart
ancient times they were the same
now lawyers expect payment just to fart,
what is right is not in the game.
When young our health is of no concern
we play and learn without a thought
now I am old, wellness I have to earn.
The work and stress have results un-sought
muscles once kept in trim
by life activities
now sag to shape like a bin
my age taking liberties
while never large and strongest man
at running races I was listed
usually an also ran
never one for feet so blistered
but my strength and speed
hidden in a frame so light
could others once deceive
not expected in one so slight
Now I struggle to keep in shape
finding time and space
for work at beating tape
always someone in my face
But while eyes and ears
tolerance and wit
reduce with passing years
I am still said to be fit
these words may be kindness meant
as dimmed eyes still clearly see
reflections that show me bent
while all around I see the key
life needs happiness and joy
smiles and contented people
not demands for yet another toy
these expectations high as a steeple
leave no time or space for myself
oft do I hear that cry
its only putting up a shelf
but it replaces what done before
and that took days of thought and work
wasted my time which makes me sore
every moment thoughts do lurk.
That I exist just to bring others dreams
to occur in life
my own ambitions which are reams
lost to prevent strife
some things in practice are an easier rap
plumbing in a machine
clamp on a self cutting tap
so easy to be keen
no leaks and pipes to seal
all done in moments serene
old time workers would just reel
how easy now this scene
In this lifetime of my many more
English born and raised
midst slaughter and war
in family calm not fazed
but left alive at the end
to live with threatened Armageddon
which side won I can not send
truth is not what we are fed on
Flower power and freedom wide
were given, who knows why
live for now and enjoy the ride
drink down and reach the sky
The music rocked and wild rides pleased
colours shaped our every day
free caresses teased
all before was drab as clay
I survived my foolish acts
enjoyed some times
but lacked all tact
at others simple mimes
some times I was the cause
at others victim, me
suffering the hurt sores
always try to be
myself whoever this can be
life flows with ups and downs
which is right, we can not see
lost wilderness to towns
now all seems urban myth
protected from ourselves
we’ve lost the earth’s solid pith
now we bow to the elves
who tell us what we can risk
no hurt or harm must sustain
lest we get lost in a mist
yet what is life if not obtain
triumph over fear and pain
without these, no gain
I have lost to deaths embrace
both son and brother too
father and dear mother
gone but not forgot.
As greater poet than myself
did say
in balance yet this life
this death
Some know where they were
when JFK went though deaths door
My memory has failed
but I joined as freedom railed
the death of one shining light
words that brought hope so bright
may be if was a false dawn
and still fragile as a fawn
But hope is better than no cause
with hope you chase and do not pause
we poor and peasant stock
expected to take each knock
power wielded by those, who spin best lies
they never utter pains great sighs
All together they often cry
The ruling socialists greatest lie.
The state know best they try to claim.
But only the elite they claim are sane
we poor with minds are slain
to feed the need for social fame
Champaign socialists used to be a mock
now they rule and pretend to care a flock
When great wars I survived,
when by chance I revived
life was good and worth the risk
now I am way down the list
one more old mouth to feed
reducing available politicians greed
one who sees through their words
and knows they would feed us curds
if only we did not have the vote
won for us by previous words we wrote
The blood of great men past
when priests genuinely did fast
Medieval times of strife
freedom earned by a knife
At least then villainy was brave
might was right, held the nave
now hidden rules and pretended light
stolen virtue masked as right
leaders have courage less than mice
shouting onward while they welcome vice
Religion was labelled opium of the masses
but now we have television and electro game
whipping thoughts from people with lashes
that are silent but still minds can maim.
Propaganda fed through soaps
attention spans reduced to seconds
making millions of people into dopes
all calculated by those who reckons
Life has been reduced, to survival
Too many people and elitist power
who will never truly accept a rival
care not if good men forced to cower.
Creativity needs support and blessing
money, now is the only absolute
no matter what the skill or dressing
you get nothing of your words do not suit
without promotion all the work is wasted
promotion costs money and feeds media
that claims freedom but is so tainted
it starves the people, feeds just the seedier
Minds accepting getting by
where once we strived to fly
we drink and eat and watch TV
not constructing careful thought
never thinking what is to be
crushed by always failing back to nought
those who strive to escape
branded traitors to the cause
try to burst through the tape
then hounded without pause.
Question those who set the trend
self-appointed masters of truth
find yourself cursed without end
Their truth is but lies with different roof
question them about their research
try checking method, oh so suspect
pilloried as if claim heresy besmirch
They now lie so openly, such disrespect.
If lies exposed they do not care
just claim the exposer is the villain
false claims of crimes so rare
discredit the truth, so hide a killing
Not of a person but of truth
No matter that millions pay
with lives blighted and minds destroy
never let the peasants get in the way
social experiments treats people as a toy
Those liberal and social thinkers
try things on humans but protect a cat
change education and watch with blinkers
ensuring only they can judge a fact
they live in walled and gated enclave
protected from birth by others work
yet claim they know what is best for a slave
yet from dirty hands they shirk
When lives of so many harmed
they continue pushing on
not their kids turned to morons
never admit to being wrong
truth buried under all their cons
A land with no room to breath
social cohesion just a dream
the poor left alone to grieve
told lies about how they seem.
But declare the experiment is a fail,
and all scorn poured upon your head.
Blasphemy they shout and wail,
claim you have taken paupers bread.
Yet it is they and their ego,
claiming right to dictate,
that people just need bread and bingo.
Claiming they know others fate.
They and only they, know what others need.
The state must rule, their only shout.
If people starve as plans fail to feed,
blame the failure on enemies without.
Letting people think and feel,
is not allowed, in the peoples name.
Crush all thoughts and all zeal,
the masses must all be the same.
How can liberals and socialists feel great,
if working people allowed to think,
and realise they master their own fate.
This could happen if the controllers blink,
feed the belly and starve the mind,
dumb the senses, give them lies,
drown out all truth others find.
So securely, we all are tied.
When young and may be wild
my health and strength took no thought
not big, not fast but strong, said notes filed
freedom now was all I sought
not the brightest of my year
others sharper and bigger puff
but neither slowest, when brain in gear
maths, physics and reading well enough
a love and knowing how things work
education training from first principle
no challenge ever to great to shirk
but never one of humanity's invincible.
Now older and worn down
weighed by responsibility
face a constant frown
loosing the given ability
yet still feel there is more I can do
with a mind that methods understand
to be alive and gain freedom to
always strive and hope for wealth so grand
To be free from trivial plight
without fashions feckless absurdity
able to focus on finding a future bright
and no financial moribundity
My muscles now are weak and slow
yet I set much younger people
so lazy and dead to energy's sweet flow
I could still climb a higher steeple.
I am restless and feel trapped inside,
others needs for constant change.
a need they demand I fill by their side,
while I long the distant hills to range.
The distant hills of my mind
need silence, their peace to find.
We all need outlets for our minds
but some demand attention of feel anger not feigned
weird or not it takes all kinds
whiles those like me can be self contained
I underestimate the range and hurt
that can be felt at slightest snub
my careless words spoken in voice so curt
can lead to turmoil and tears to blub.
My remorse at causing pain
while not empathise with the other
Never spoke my words for gain
never intend grief to a lover.
It is a strange effect of getting older
I become more impatient with life’s event
even waiting while the computer compacts a folder
what seemed so instant now lasts as long as lent
my joints now ache with pain unrelenting
my mind still rushes faster than fingers can type
too old to buy must be always renting
yet I have no idea how to Skype
The ideas flow just as fast
but the body can not keep up
like a play with stellar cast
but a written plot that is a pup
age withers and slows us down
hearing fades and eyes do to
drawing puzzled frown
missing point and my cue
misunderstand and misunderstood
focus reduced by pain and tiredness
not communicating even when could
when the young seem not to care-less.
The people who claim leadership over me
seem so remote and distant from my life
as far away as ancient kings would be
and even more mired in corruption rife
At least in olden times, the king led troops from in front
now those claiming power, stay hidden from sight
Hide behind some elected intellectual runt
Bureaucrats control but never seen at a fight
They days when power was visible have disappeared
now we have church and parliament
just distractions from who should be feared
unseen masters getting rich, never saying what is meant
The world is overflowing with too many people
Gaia crushed by human greed
climb and watch from a steeple
life is more than just new seed
Young people filled with arrogance so vile,
cowardly hidden by electronic distance.
Spewing insults at all, but with no style.
One day they face reality and cry for assistance.
Life in their virtual castle, critical without just cause,
one day they will face those they tried to bully,
in hard reality and not able to click on pause,
they will deserve all the pain, oh so fully.
May be then they learn to actually live,
not just visualise and hide away.
They will find others have more pain to give,
unfairness so they will say.
Yet, in truth they get just rewards,
for insults and pain they chose to cause.
Karma comes to all and comes with swords,
ten fold pain and insults will pour without pause.
As we grow older, those dear to us also age,
they also become infirm and fall sick.
In some ways life is like a book, with page after page,
but in this book pages have to be turned every tick,
the clock of time never stops.
It measures far more than hours going by,
the records allow success as well as flops.
Both fade in memory, however hard we try.
Those we love have troubles too,
feeling their pain and loss, adds to our lot,
and so life builds up things to rue.
It seems so far from sleeping in a cot.
We are born and travel towards heavens treasure,
we bring forth new life and guard them well,
we laugh and mourn in equal measure.
But none can avoid that eventual tolling bell.
Some we love will fear death that comes too soon,
some will fear missing life’s extremes.
Fear itself becomes the pain, as constant as the moon.
Yet for all we know nothing is as it seems.
Since we have had laws to obey,
and gave power to a few, over all,
justice has gone away.
Right and wrong have taken a great fall.
The law rules our every moment,
while truth and honesty are subdued.
Long gone the notions of atonement,
now fees to courts are all that's fuelled.
Even nations bow to self important few,
how come democracy can be negated?
By elite and disconnected crew,
whose lust for power is never sated.
Around me I see my contemporaries fall and die,
in my mirror I see a face so old and grey.
So much still to live and do, is my daily sigh.
So much a life that I have lived, so many others say,
yet if look back, regret and failures I can see.
My children I have not kept alive and free from pain.
They are such wonderful people, not much due to me.
I have had pleasure and success, but they fade like yesterday's rain.
That drain that sucks in all human endeavour,
time, takes the best and worst we can offer,
leaving just our last breaths to sever,
from the life we cling to, as a miser to his coffer.
Words we write and words we speak,
go down the drain of life, just as also do,
the cigars we smoke and whisky we drink,
Takes genius, Shakespeare and Yeats to name just two.
To last beyond our dying gasp.
Do we hope to return?
Or dread, redoing all again to last?
Oh I will I ever learn?
Will I be free from life, or will I teach,
that others, newer, souls do not yearn?
To help brighter stars get past the devils reach.
The joys of this flesh, fade with remorseless speed,
younger bodies these pleasures felt,
now all that is left is a broken reed.
As butter left in heat just to melt.
A writers need for solitude, hangs heavy,
on those with more urgent need.
Attention for each passing hour, is their bevvy.
Amusement now is their creed.
A frail poet's strangled words, take too long.
Meanings slightly hidden in the text,
unsuited for instant hit pop song.
Yet words on a page, left for those who come next.
Have more to say than some can see,
those who blindly follow fame never ration,
this a blessing that we hope will be.
Frivolous shallow, mindless fashion,
surplus to all life’s' reason can see.
Have I wasted all those years?
Have all my decisions been badly made?
Is my total just futile tears?
What I have left of life will fade,
what will remain to show my time?
Words on paper, thoughts articulated.
Just these sad attempts to rhyme.
Will spirit live on or be sated?
Those half remembered times of my youth,
when life was free and now seem easy.
At the time behaviour so uncouth,
motor cycles and bars so sleazy,
work and play in equal measure
natural code of an age gone by,
work for pay and pay for pleasure,
no limits on what we could try.
Responsibilities crept up, and curbed wild strain,
Love of wife and children three,
so commuting and the daily train,
these were what then measured me.
All worth while at that time.
Life changes and moves along,
years do pass and pathways split.
No blame and no cause for song,
just new fires that are lit.
I have loved with passion strong,
been loved, I hope, with equal fervour,
time passes and others claim things were wrong.
I only know what was real then, went further.
Now life is constrained by rules and laws,
We must not speak as we find,
Thuggery and theft not get punishment and sores
Yet can be jailed for words, deemed unkind.
Saying we did wrong when life was different,
assumes life then was just as present day.
What is right or wrong depends on messages sent,
in the past things were done a different way.
Do not judge what you can not know,
basic law of human kind,
you always reap what you do sow.
Be too hasty in judging and you will find,
what you reap at harvest time,
is karma piled up out of sight.
Beyond my poor wit to rhyme,
you will fail despite your might.
How we lived and what we did,
based on the mores of our age,
you think you can just remove the lid,
and be given wisdom of a sage.
Wisdom demands a deeper study,
experience is the only teacher.
View from afar and all is muddy,
live it, pain and all, become so meeker.
What do we know of starvations curse?
those today, who miss one meal,
think of screaming for a nurse,
and pontificate with zeal.
On hunger's dreadful toll.
They think walking in the rain,
is being tortured to their soul.
Rant and rave about their pain.
When dark death walked hand in hand,
with fair life, and future was so bleak.
We learned what it was to understand,
and to take such care if threats did speak.
Sky’s filled with deadly bombs,
underground shelters in darkness bound,
braver men than I did respond.
To fight an enemy who thought their right was sound.
Brave men and women too, on both sides of the war,
all led by visions and banners proud.
Who was right and who wrong saw,
all ended up in dirty shroud.
History does not bring clearer sight,
used to said written by the victors,
now it is written by those with might.
And these have own agendas.
Science used to mean the search for truth absolute,
now its aim is to please the funding stream.
Bureaucrats rule the lab, with main eye on the loot,
So not all studies are what they seem.
Media distortion, bent by advertising revenue,
add to the fog and misleading comment
aided by politicians of every hue.
What ever actual science meant.
In war truth is the victim first,
as enemies must be confused.
But now our peace is worse
Power and cash and lies all fused.
Stupidity and ignorance rule,
fake and celebrity lead the way,
TV is just a business tool.
Blacken truth, deny it a say.
Lies prevail and profits make,
privilege, through wealth is the aim,
does not matter what is fake.
For the poor it is always the same.
Ancient ruling sages did cast the die,
feed the bellies and starve the minds.
Knowledge is power, so hold to the lie,
give them food and close our lines.
Let ignorance rule the masses,
teach them not to think.
Qualify them all, as asses,
as if they focus hard, we sink.
Look back on school days hard,
when stupidity was a crime,
discipline and effort marked your card.
Now equality without effort, is the prime.
Every human needs to strive,
lazy mind to trouble led.
Escape this, so we all survive.
It is not enough, just to be fed.
To say no one must loose,
condemns whole classes to the heap.
Thinking celebrity is what to choose.
This is why real education is not cheap.
Start with instillation of work, as a notion.
Let every child know all must strive hard.
Rise above bitter failures emotion.
No matter where they are from, or why,
value is in trying hard, not easy fake success.
Be it brawn or brain what you have, is what you try
All have a part to right this mess.
The poor planet is weighed right down,
too many people add to Gaia,
reduce the burden lest we all do drown.
Every mind worth its warm fire.
Too many and only the elite will blossom
better have fewer and all fulfilled
as things are so many just flotsam
or cannon fodder being drilled
When I was young I did not think about age.
I doubt many expected me to live so long,
daredevil or fool I was never in a cage.
I can not sing but risk was my song.
Now I am old I get so low,
no control of my life or time,
now there are no wild oats to sow.
Leaves such a taste as bitter lime.
No money means no selection,
and needs of others take the hours,
their happiness needs such protection.
Creativity fails like long dead flowers.
I have drank from both full cups,
happiness and deep sorrow.
Frisked around like lively pups,
and wished for no more morrows.
The list of things that I should do,
the accounts that I need to pay,
just get longer, and bigger to.
While income is less than they say.
What future is it that I face?
At times, so bleak and dismal dark,
then I view myself with distaste.
For I have known worse, yet risen as a lark.
May be that is an age taught lesson,
that all can be overcome.
If ever we learn from our previous session,
it is that darkness can be overrun.
Sit still and await the dawn,
fine thoughts if you're the only one.
When others depend for emotions corn,
This weighs down with many a ton.
Against responsibility with no control,
I have long silently railed.
Do it my way but its on your soul,
seems to be a frequent wail.
Why should I have to follow another path,
when I will receive all blame,
should we fail in our craft.
If I choose and fail its fair game,
but to follow others' wishes
then be whipped for failing at the fences.
is not fair even on fishes.
And it riles up all my senses.
When I was a child, out in sun and showers,
wild things grew, enchanting my mind
with beauty and ever changing flowers.
I could explore what ever I sought to find.
Now all is global and web wide,
yet children are tethered by fears, justly felt.
So for most its a only a virtual ride,
not the reality of running full pelt.
I try to use social media,
what ever that actually means.
People say it panders to the seedier,
aspects of life's many scenes.
Communication in no time,
and without much thought,
and never any rhyme.
Consideration counts for naught.
My moods and emotions change,
yet may be not all me to blame,
others also allow fears to range.
Not only me that has temper to tame.
We live and die with others views,
what is good and what is bad,
my own may not suite other muse.
Yet difference can cause to be sad.
About the Creator
Peter Rose
Collections of "my" vocal essays with additions, are available as printed books ASIN 197680615 and 1980878536 also some fictional works and some e books available at Amazon;-
amazon.com/author/healthandfunpeterrose
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